Making friends and getting along with people
October 4, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationships
arundhati khopker asked:
Making friends is quite easy if you really try hard but most important is that you should like him and he should like you. Having similiar like and dislikes is half the battle won. He should be physically appealing, that also means pleasant, nice to talk to and interested in you. You should admire his/her qualities as a person and respect them and vice versa. Meeting one another frequently is also an important requisite of being a friend to a friend. They say that a friend is one who is around when the bad times comes and helps you get over them.
Why must we have friends? well, since man is an Asocial animal he/she needs feedback for doing things the right way and needs to have an outlet for his views and opinions. Our friends, whom we discuss topics of current interest give us an insight into opinions that we may not agree with. Our outlook on life broadens and we start to address various issues in life with a renewed vigour. We increase our knowledge and become popular as an outgoing person. The more our circle increases by word of mouth, the better we become as a human being. We can relate to people in our family and outside it with more maturity.
Our life would be barren and sad if we did not have friends to talk to, go out for a picnic, meet in the park or have a meal with them. We have different levels of relationships with people. Some may be intimate, others may be aloof, still others could be cordial, and so on. The way someone relates to us makes us react to them in the same way. The most important thing is to make the most friends and that can only be achieved by being a natural and as good as one can possibly be. It is the answer to every problem in life.
Making friends is quite easy if you really try hard but most important is that you should like him and he should like you. Having similiar like and dislikes is half the battle won. He should be physically appealing, that also means pleasant, nice to talk to and interested in you. You should admire his/her qualities as a person and respect them and vice versa. Meeting one another frequently is also an important requisite of being a friend to a friend. They say that a friend is one who is around when the bad times comes and helps you get over them.
Why must we have friends? well, since man is an Asocial animal he/she needs feedback for doing things the right way and needs to have an outlet for his views and opinions. Our friends, whom we discuss topics of current interest give us an insight into opinions that we may not agree with. Our outlook on life broadens and we start to address various issues in life with a renewed vigour. We increase our knowledge and become popular as an outgoing person. The more our circle increases by word of mouth, the better we become as a human being. We can relate to people in our family and outside it with more maturity.
Our life would be barren and sad if we did not have friends to talk to, go out for a picnic, meet in the park or have a meal with them. We have different levels of relationships with people. Some may be intimate, others may be aloof, still others could be cordial, and so on. The way someone relates to us makes us react to them in the same way. The most important thing is to make the most friends and that can only be achieved by being a natural and as good as one can possibly be. It is the answer to every problem in life.
