Master The Law Of attraction for manifesting your desires

November 28, 2009 by admin  
Filed under Uncategorized

Conrad Raw asked:


"Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve." Napoleon Hill, author of many books about the mind and success, wrote the quote many years ago after interviewing W. Clement Stone. It still holds true today. The mind is an incredible tool that has untapped and misused power. Science knows how to go to the moon, and yet they only know the tip of the iceberg information about the paranormal and the use of the mind to achieve success, live longer, live better and be happier.

The term paranormal is a misnomer because, there’s nothing "beyond normal" using the principals of mind power, such as "The law of attraction". You use it everyday from morning to night. Many people, however, use it improperly and attract negative outcomes.

The law of attraction is nothing more than deciding what you want, focusing on visualizing yourself with that and believing that it already is available. Many untrained men and women use it to achieve either what they want, or exactly the opposite. The mind uses the law of attraction with no regard for good, bad, like or dislikes. You get what you ask for, regardless of whether you want it or not.

Suppose you want the house. You draw up the plans, scour magazines for pictures of different rooms, and picture yourself inside the house greeting guests. One day out of nowhere, you drive past the house of your dreams and find it for sale. You believe this is the right home but have no money to purchase it. Normal people would shrug their shoulders and walk away, not you. You know this is the house, you saw it in your dreams and every waking moment. You decide to check with the realtor anyway. Amazingly, the owner wants to finance the house for the seller, himself and doesn’t need a down payment. The payments suggested fit into your budget. The house is yours. Is it coincidence? No, it is the law of attraction at work.

Do you ever wonder why some people get right up to the door of success only to have it slam in their face. They use the law of attraction in a negative way. They see themselves as failures.

You can create your own reality. It works. When you use creative visualization with the law of attraction, you direct your mind to see you where you want to be. There’s nothing mystical about it. It works on several planes. The first is the fact that you are more aware when opportunity arises. You notice the steps to your goal when they confront you. In the example above, you saw the house of your dreams.

The second is that you believe that your dream is attainable so you take action on it, action that you never would have attempted without your visualization to confirm that success was possible. In the example, you looked at the house, something you normally wouldn’t do.

The third may seem mystical and paranormal but is just science we don’t yet understand. Had someone shown early man the computer, he would have said it was magic or witchcraft. He would have said that, not because it is paranormal but because he didn’t yet understand how it worked or all the principals involved.

That’s the same concept we have of the law of attraction. Thoughts are things; they are energy waiting to materialize. It requires guidance and focus but is available to every man and woman. In the example, your energy influenced the seller’s decision to finance the sale, even before you met him. Just like the computer, you don’t have to understand how it works to use it.

When you learn to use the law of attraction in a controlled positive manner, a universe of possibilities begin to show up in your life. It isn’t mystical, nor is it magical, like the early man, you just don’t have the science yet to understand it.

 



How Dating Can Help In Making Friends

June 24, 2009 by admin  
Filed under Dating

Rodrigo Rehn asked:


Those of you who are still in a notion that men and women can never be friends should come out of these orthodox concepts. There are many people of different age groups who consider dating as a way to make new friends. They are not really looking for romantic partners and some of them already have one.

But they do not have sufficient friends and this is the reason why they try out the method of dating to acquire new friends to share feelings and get support. There are no boundaries in friendship and a friend can be anyone with whom you feel comfortable enough to open up.

The more you make friends the closer you get bonded with the society which is really good for you as most of us are loosing our social contacts because of the rat race of life. Moreover the number of places that you can visit on boring weekends also increase remarkably which is the most profitable part of making friendship.

It happens at times that you get to know a person from different sources. This can be a speed dating event or an internet dating site. Then you gradually have phone conversations with the person and start liking him or her.

Then you two fix an appointment to meet somewhere. But this might happen that you do not get the feel after meeting each other that two lovers should feel. It is nothing but the x-factor which can be missing.

But this does not mean that you will not like the person. He might not be the dream date of your or the right partner for you. But surely he or she can become a real good friend as you have common topics to discuss about and sometimes can also share the feelings that you cannot share with anybody else.

This can start from dating but end up into a long term friendly relationship. But there can be many cases where the date is fixed with the intention of making friendship with the other person. Both of them already knew that; hence they will be mentally prepared. This is an added benefit that can be obtained from dating

Side-effects

No good trick is devoid of any adverse effects. There are some here as well. Often it happens that one of the dates start liking the opponent wherein he or she is just a friend to their date. This is when the heart breaks take place. Moreover if you already have a spouse then the chances are high that they will not understand your motive behind dating and you can get into serious trouble. So be careful before you adapt dating as the technique of making friends.